We all know what Romance Novels are...
But have you heard of that book Fifty Shades of Grey? You know, the one that every woman and her mother read? — yeah, it's an entirely different kind of romance novel.
And man, these kind of books are a dark secret that women keep hidden from us. Yet they're the #1 book category on Amazon.com.
In fact, more "adult romance novels" are sold to women every year, than pornography is sold to men.
So when I learned all of this, I thought "well, whatever's going on in these books, women are really into it. I should have a look for myself." Wow — there's some dark stuff! Bondage, chains, even nonconsensual acts. I was sucked in, and the more I read, the more I understood about what women really want in a man.
And wow — it's some crazy stuff. I was astonished, and the more I read, the more I understood about what women really want in a man.
Is there a "secret code" that makes a woman fall in love with a man?
As I read hundreds of these adult romance novels, I began to see patterns. Men would do or say a certain type of thing, and it would cause the women to get interested in them... then fantasize about them, and eventually... become totally obsessed.
And it didn't always make sense! For example, the pickup artists told me that I was supposed to be an "alpha male" and never let my guard down.
But in these books, there was always a point when the character became vulnerable, and admitted his flaws to a woman. This was great news for me, because I sure had a lot of flaws... and anyway, who wants to pretend to be someone he's not?
I began to put the "storyline" together — the step-by-step sequence that took a woman from being totally uninterested in a guy (and believe me, they almost always are at the start) to obsessed and ravenous for him.
After months, I had it figured out — I called it the "Obsession Story" in my notebook.
I was in the worst debt of my life, and as out of shape as I've ever been. But when this girl and I locked eyes at a dinner party, I wasn't afraid.
Sure, I was nervous... I still remember thinking that I'd screwed things up by pushing too hard and being a little too mysterious when she asked me about myself.
But within twenty minutes of us parting ways, she sent me a flirty facebook message. Two weeks later, we kissed for the first time, and three weeks after that, it was pretty much "official."
Since then, I've had three more long-term relationships, and I've been with my current girlfriend (she's the best woman I've ever known!) for over four years now.
I'm sure you understand that I don't want to use people or photos from my private life on this website, but I can tell you this — she's a total knockout, too ;)
I always like to say: a woman doesn't fall for games — she falls for a man.
When I read all of these romance novels, I discovered that there were certain character traits that the men shared: they were dominant, mysterious, challenging, sexual, and genuine... in short, nothing like I was!
So yeah, I decoded the step-by-step system to go from meeting, to texting, to dating, to sleeping together, to relationship...
...but more importantly, I discovered how to be the sort of man who woman obsess over.
That's why it always burns me up when I hear someone say "just be yourself." Who I was, well... wasn't good enough for the women I wanted!
I had a burning desire to become a better guy, and have women like me for me.
So while I've got a whole bunch of killer tips, techniques, and tricks to share, they're mere training wheels — examples of these character traits, to teach you how to develop them on your own.
It took me years to perfect all of this, and it sure didn't happen intentionally. But when one of my clients got engaged, he implored me to put everything I taught into a training course that I could share with more guys...
20 men paid $2000 to attend my seminar, where I revealed my step-by-step system, and personally coached them through their sticking points. And that's what I'm here to tell you about today.
I've produced an 18-hour, high-definition seminar where I break down the step-by-step system, and show you how to become the guy who women obsess over. Download it from my brain to yours, and I promise you'll see incredible results.
I want you to apply what I teach. So I've created exercises and games that will make it fun to learn the obsession story, and everything else in the course. You'll wire these secrets deep into your neurons in no time flat.
As you may be discovering, I have an overwhelming passion for sharing what I've discovered, and helping men become more confident and better with women. So I'll reward you with additional training programs as you make your way through the Girlfriend Activation System.
Welcome to the Girlfriend Activation System! Meet Christian and here his story here, and learn about what's in this massive, updated version of the course.
Fulfilling her Obsession Story means being an obsession-worthy man. In this segment, Christian gives you the formula and demonstrates the traits.
Christian continues dissecting and demonstrating the traits of a man with obsession-worthy masculine power.
Upon the request of an audience member, our female volunteer Alex reveals how Christian made her feel during the demonstrations, and why it was working on her.
Christian welcomes Nick Sparks, Master Coach at The Social Man, to discuss sexuality - the one obsession-worthy trait that separates those who end up in the friend zone, with those who get the girl.
Christian welcomes surprise guest Jason Capital to share his incredible insights on how to be a challenge to a woman - all the way to your core.
Christian is joined by good friend Alex Allman, who shares the secrets to letting down your guard without giving away your power. An awesome presentation that had the audience moved.
Christian welcomes David Wygant, one of the world's most renowned dating coaches, to discus dominance - one of the crucial elements of masculine power - in-depth.
It's one thing to be an obsession-worthy man, but to keep the girl, you also need to be a great boyfriend. In this segment, Christian reveals the seven things that every woman truly wants.
The audience takes time to ask questions about all of the material covered up to this point, and Christian takes time to make sure that no question is left unanswered.
Christian finally pulls all of the pieces together, to reveal the Obsession Story, and to show you how to stay one step ahead in the dating game.
Before jumping into the specifics of the Obsession Story and the dating game, Christian shares some thoughts and insights on the material covered in Day 1. Essential viewing.
"How do I approach her?" It's one of the most common questions that a dating coach receives, and Christian will start to break it down for you here.
It all starts with the first impression, and when it comes to getting women to approch you, there's nothing better than Christian's unique take on King Game.
Master Coach Nick Sparks - a man who's personally coached men to approach thousands of women - joins once again to share his tips and secrets on making a great first impression.
It's the question that's been asked a thousand times to a thousand dating coaches: "what do I say to start a conversation"? Christian shares his answers here.
You're in the friend zone but you want more. In this segment, Christian reveals his secret, so-good-it-should-be-patented technique for resetting her impression and turning things around.
Once you've made a great first impression, it's time to pass through the inspection gauntlet. Christian gives you the map in this segment.
Most men approach the first date with a combination of fear, anxiety and loathing. But after this segment, you'll see exactly how to rock it, have a great time, and have her loving it.
It's a date that most men can't pull off early in the relationship - inviting her out with friends. But after you learn Christian's tips, you'll be able to use this date to get her even more invested in you.
You've done everything right, and it's time to take things to the next level. Here's the step-by-step date that turns up the heat and has her waking up next to you in the morning.
It's the final phase of the Obsession Story before she's your girlfriend, but there's still a lot to get right. After this segment, you'll be one step ahead of the game and get everything right.
It's been a long two days, and in this final segment, Christian shares his candid thoughts about how to put the training to work, and what's next for you.
Bonus training modules on overcoming self-doubt, being more confident when you're nervous, and dealing with anxiety.
You'll learn the strategy to get a woman who's unattainable. Either she friend-zoned you or she has a boyfriend. Use this and she'll think about what a mistake she made. And fair warning: women can become very aggressive when they want to prove themselves to you.
Know how and when to make each move; asking her out, going for the kiss, escalating to the hookup and landing the relationship. You'll never wuss out again, because you'll know exactly what she secretly wants you to do.
Learn the seven traits of the men who women obsess over. I'll give you examples and demonstrations, and once you've started to implement them, you'll see just how easy it is to make a woman fall for the real you.
You're a good guy who wants a great woman, and you don't want to play games. When you follow the proven GFAS playbook, you'll reliably go from step to step, cutting the drama and B.S., and having fun falling for a woman who's also falling for you.
My promise is very simple, to the point of sounding cliché:
If you go through the entire course, and put it to use, you will have a loyal, loving girlfriend in six weeks or less.
And not just that, but you'll feel a profound shift inside yourself. Your confidence, and ability to hold space with a woman will improve dramatically.
Finally, you'll start having a lot more fun with women, and socializing in general. You'll experience much better responses from both women and men (a lot of guys tell me that the principles in the GFAS have helped them tremendously at work)
And the reason I feel comfortable making such claims is because I've sold over 100,000 copies of the Girlfriend Activation System, and received more success stories than I can keep track of.
"I was at the end of my rope with a woman who I had asked to marry me... one night she said to me "I can't do this, I dont love you the way you love me. I was at home drinking myself into a stupor and self medicating when I saw your video on facebook... So now the problem is that a lot of women are noticing that there is something different about me and she is no longer the one that I want. I deserve better!! I am happy to say that this course was worth a thousand times what I paid and would do it all over again..."
"You crystalised some ideas that I have had for a long time, like that love should be a gift that we give without expectation of return. I realise now that many of my most important relationships were doomed because I was unaware of the huge expectations I placed on men to give me the space to live out my Obsession Story. I had no words to explain to them what I needed. Not only that but I expected them to know what they should be doing because, in my mind, they were in charge of driving the relationship. , I think that humanity will benefit if we reassess our understanding of the relationship between men and women."
"I can say that by applying the lessons taught in the GFAS... I can attract any person I have the desire to (I know that sounds cocky, and I would say there are still outliers, though I haven't experienced one). I honestly feel like a ten because of these three works of art you guys have brought into my life, and people can't get enough of me. Girls I used to hit on are asking ME out, girls with boyfriends and HUSBANDS... (Not too proud that they're not faithful, but that's not my fault)."
"To make an even longer story short, I went out and got that dream job, I got that girl and others who are way out of my league. That's really all it came down to, is just being the man I want to be, and to be interesting, random and fun + exciting without being flaky or weird. This is who I am now, and it's something/ someone I was able to mold myself into. And I am happy man. I owe it to you and I also owe it to those guys who literally did me a favor by sleeping with my ex. None of this would have been possible without your system and those guys haha. Weird, but true. Thanks a ton man."
"The biggest thing that I was missing is dominance, body mechanics, breaking space and elevation. Once I started applying these things I instantly saw results. I've worked on the campus of [REDACTED] for ten years and this place is loaded with beautiful women. I've maybe had ten dates within that period of time. Now within the last week by just practicing what I have learned I got six phone numbers in two days! I have a date with a smoking hot girl now on Friday."
"Thanks for all your doing man. I actually didn't think this would be legit, but now I'm interested in every course you have and everything you have to say. In one week, I stopped getting drunk every day, quit smoking cigarettes, went to the gym for the first time in 129 days (as the clerk had to inform me), went on an epic bike ride, had 1 semi-hookup, and I'm generally feeling better."
This is a subliminal training course that I hired a hypnotist to produce. I was fairly skeptical of hypnosis until I experienced it myself, but once I did, I knew that I had to pass this gift along. It will upgrade your subconscious mind with the inner voice of a man who's been successful with women for his entire life.
The seminar that teaches how to approach any woman, without risking rejection, and have her opening up to you in about 30 seconds. Using the GFAS, you'll often find women approaching you, but for those times when you see someone you just have to meet, this is how you'll do it.
In this seminar, I teach a dead-simple conversation formula, to ensure that you'll never run out to things to say, or have those uncomfortable silences or stall-outs with women. Combined with the conversational materials in the GFAS, your conversation skills and charm are going to hit "Bill Clinton" levels.
When you use the Girlfriend Activation System, you'll awaken a woman's naughty side in ways that might surprise you. So I thought it'd be fun to teach you how to turn women on over text, exchange exciting photos in a smooth way, and so on. I don't sell this as a standalone, but if I did, I'd ask $197 for it (and let's face it, guys would stuff my pockets for these secrets!)
You know by now that I'm all about "becoming a better man." So my research extended beyond literotica, and I began to focus on men who were "tens" with business and life. In this course, I reveal what I learn. It's normally $147 per month, but you'll get to try it for free for 14 days, and if you like it, then you can lock in a discounted rate of $67 per month. This is the best course I've ever made, and I'm really excited to let you take a peek at it.
My Private Members Community is built for any screen size, so you can watch the course on your 60" LED TV (woot, big me!), your 5" phone (super little me) or anything in between... and it'll still work beautifully.
Let's say you don't like the way I look, and can't stand watching my videos... well, I've still got you covered. You can download the 300-page eBook and learn that way (if you're a reader), as well as full MP3's of the course (if you're an auditory learner). And I'm including the full powerpoint deck, so if you are watching the videos, you can follow along and take notes in the margins.
There's a reason I call it a Private Members Community. In my forums, you can post your specific questions and situations, and get quick answers and help from me, my coaches, and other guys who are going down the same path. And while I give pretty damn good advice, just wait until the legendary Dr. Sys replies to you... this guy has helped more guys get out of "impossible" situations than coach Pat Riley.
I've sold over 150,000 copies of the Girlfriend Activation System, so there are a lot of men in my community. And I thought, wouldn't it be great to help them find other guys with similar interests and life goals, and take their connections offline, as wingmen, workout partners, or heck... even to find a couch to crash on? That's what you'll be able to do with the Social Connect, and while it's currently in beta, it's free with your purchase of the GFAS.
Get The Complete Girlfriend Activation System Today
Obviously, I wouldn't be putting my face and name on this if I didn't believe in it. But I know, I know... it's still the Internet, and we're talking about a course called the freaking Girlfriend Activation System, and you're probably wondering... is this legit?
So here's my guarantee: you have 60 days, from the date of your purchase, to evaluate the course. And if you don't get a girlfriend, or don't think it was an amazing use of your hard-earned money, then just email or call, and we'll refund you on the spot.
Now remember — I've promised that if you go through the entire course, and put it to work, you'll have a girlfriend in six weeks or less. So basically, this guarantee gives you all of that time, plus a two-week buffer.
Our Customer Happiness team is located in Austin, TX, and they're working 24/7. And to be honest, we get just as many incredible testimonials about them as we do about the course itself. We have an awesome company culture, and as you'll find if you ever talk to them, they are super easy to work with, and I've tasked them with one goal: make my customers ecstatic.
If there's a woman who you've got your eye on, are you going to leave it to "hope" or "chance"? Because there's another really cool option:
Get my step-by-step system which is based on real female psychology, become the man who she'll obsess over, and make her your girlfriend within six weeks or less.
Over 150,000 guys made that choice, and they've had no problem paying $197 for those results (honestly, that's less than what most guys spend on a few dates!)
But as you'll learn if you watch the presentation, I recently agreed to lower the price to $67, in honor of the guy who filmed the course. He just got engaged, and asked me to take on a new "class of 2000" men to personally coach in my members community.
So we put this pretty site together, and here you are reading it! Sign up now before the 2000 copies are sold, and the price goes back up to $197!
For a single secure payment of only
Get The Complete Girlfriend Activation System
Answer: Good question. I remember when I started buying stuff online I had the same concerns, so here's the deal:
We use military-grade encryption to process your order (I'm pretty sure it's illegal not to do so, anyway!)
The way I see it, if you order from me, you're putting your faith in me not to fuck you over. That means a lot to me, so I go to great lengths to protect your information.
Answer: It's very simple: if you don't get a girlfriend, or you don't like the course, you can ask for a full refund within 60 days. And of course, I won't take offense to it!
I have a full-time, round-the-clock team of Customer Happiness people, whose job it is to make sure that guys like you are happy with my company. Most of them are based in Austin, TX.
When you call or email, you'll be connected to one of them, and believe me, they are AMAZING at their jobs. Super friendly and caring, and in it for the same reason I am — to help guys like you improve their lives. So you should have no hesitation to reach out to them, whether you want a refund, or if you want to purchase another course, or whatever reason, really.
Bottom line is that I think that the GFAS is worth way more than I charge for it, and I think you'll feel the same way. If you don't, just hit me up within 60 days and we'll get you a refund.
Answer: There's a whole section dedicated to this specific problem. It's called "resetting impression" because that's what you need to do — reset her impression of you, and how she sees you in her mind.
If you're in the friend zone, then she doesn't see you as someone who she wants to have a sexual relationship with. And she probably knows that you'd like that with her, so she's holding all of the cards.
I'll give you a series of things to do and say that will flip this dynamic around. Step One is to get her to see you as the one who put her in the friend zone. Once you've done that, I'll show you how to playfully tease and bait her into being more sexual.
It's really fun for you and for her. And the good news is that if you're in the friend zone, then she already likes you. A lot of the hard work is done, and chances are you guys would have a great relationship!
So if you're in the friend zone with a woman you really like, you'll probably want to go straight to the "Resetting Impression" section of the course when you buy it.
Answer: You have to understand — all of those "surface-level" things do create attraction and desire, but they don't seal the deal. I've got a male model friend who struggled mightily with women, and trust me, this was one good looking dude.
So if you're not what society says is the "perfect model of a man" that's ok. The things that a woman's mind truly responds to are your personality traits. Can you challenge her? Are you mysterious... a man who keeps her on her toes? Can you show your sexuality in a way that's exciting (and not creepy)? And so on...
These are the things I teach — with countless examples, techniques, and principles.
And this is the reason that so many men have had success with the GFAS: they become men who are attractive to women in a much deeper, "primitive" way that has nothing to do with looks or a bank account, and has everything to do with how they make her feel.
Answer: Ok, and makeup and push-up bras aren't?
Think of it this way: every interaction you have with another human will influence their behavior.
So the way I define manipulation is: when you are influencing someone to do something that is not good for them, that they wouldn't otherwise want to do.
The key point here is what your intentions are. Thousands of amazing men — who weren't naturally gifted with women — have bought my course, and become great boyfriends and husbands to women they truly cared for.
Answer: That's such a fucking bullshit, cop-out line. What it really means is don't try to improve... just settle for whatever you can get. In my case, who I "was" wasn't good enough for women, and I truly wanted to become better.
And look - "you" are always a work in progress... from your cells to your beliefs to your personality.
Now I do believe that you shouldn't compromise yourself, adopting values that aren't right for you, just to please another person, and I wouldn't ask you to do that.
But what I will show and encourage you to do is to adopt new personality traits and behaviors that women find attractive, on an "evolutionary" level.
Answer: I can, but I would prefer not to. I charge $1000 an hour, and I have a number of clients who pay this for business coaching. It's easy for them to justify the expense, because our calls generate them a lot more revenue than they pay me.
And by the way, I know that's an outrageous amount, but I chose it because there's a big opportunity cost for me when I'm not working on my own businesses. I truly do enjoy coaching, but I truly wish I could coach more men personally.
So if you're looking for advice in your personal life, wouldn't it be a much better use of your funds to buy my course, get into my members area, and get online feedback from me and from my coaches in the Private Members Community?
And listen — even if you paypal'd me $1000 and insisted on doing coaching, I'd insist that you start by watching the Girlfriend Activation System so that we were on the same page about many of my core concepts.
Answer: Again, I'd love to, but my current commitment is to my employees and to growing my business. I actually like being a CEO and working with my team, and my belief is that if I create great material and build a great team, that's the best thing I can do for helping as many men as I can.
If you want to go to a seminar, just book a Tony Robbins event... I went one time and loved it, and I promise it'll be a lot crazier and have a lot more dancing than any event I'd run!
Answer: Head over to the checkout page. It's super quick, 100% secure, and you'll be diving into the course in just a few minutes from now!